Make a woman love you through the challenge

It’s an overlooked way to make a woman want you, but CHALLENGE is literally the most powerful weapon in your arsenal.

Do you often get frustrated because the “bad boy” is the guy she wants? Yes, she says that she wants a nice and sensitive guy, but when that guy shows up, what happens?

“Geez, I thought that’s what I wanted, but really, I’m not sure what I want,” is a statement I can hear from her now.

No, women don’t want the nice, sensitive guy (the weakling). They will put up with the macho boy for a while because he represents a NEGATIVE challenge but what they really want is a gentleman.

The gentleman is a perfect cross between the nice/sensitive guy and the macho guy.

He’s nice enough and has enough empathy to be an easy-to-communicate guy, but he’s not going to let her run him down either.

The gentleman knows that he needs to be a POSITIVE challenge for her.

He will take her out, hold her chair, not look at other women, open the door for her, make her laugh and show her a great moment where she will laugh a lot.

After the appointment, do you hear from him the next day? No. 2 days later? No. Very good, 4 days later? uh huh

Test 5-9 days later.

Because?

While she’s laughing and having a good time, she’s building up feelings for him. If he confronts her too soon after her first few dates, before her feelings are fully developed, he interrupts her natural infatuation process.

The gentleman understands that he cannot be too available. He understands that he needs some of those “bad boy” characteristics. He’s not going to be an aggressive jerk like a macho guy either.

She will WONDER if she likes it. She will WONDER if he is seeing other women. She will WONDER what he is doing because she had such a good time and she is not sure why he is not available.

If a man controls his own feelings and goes SLOWLY into the first 10 dates/60 days of a relationship by waiting 5-9 days to call between dates and having little to no contact in that time period, she will find that she knows much more. receptive.

Most guys call in a few days. Most men want to see her too often, too early in the relationship. Most guys are in her face because they want to show how much she likes him and they don’t want another guy to get over it.

The guy who understands the challenge and understands that the POSITIVE challenge is the way to go, is the guy who makes a woman want him.

Remember guys, you can never go in too slow, but you can rush into refusal.