How to Sex a Woman – 4 Easy Steps
When it all comes down to it, pleasing a woman in bed isn’t that hard. Many men feel that they have to learn complicated techniques and read tons of books to discover the exact angle or the exact position to have proper sex with a woman. But all that is not necessary. If you follow four simple steps, your success with sex will increase exponentially.
The first and foremost thing to remember about sex with women is that it’s about anticipation. I can’t stress enough the importance of giving your woman at least an hour of foreplay. You want me to beg you to have sex with her. And I mean literally you want her to ask you to have sex! You want me to grab you and put you inside her. When it does, you’ll know you’ve built up the right amount of anticipation. The biggest enemy is yourself. Be patient, be self-controlled. Let her decide when it’s time to move on to the next step.
The second thing that almost all men fail to consider is that sex for women is 90% mental. If he’s having trouble getting a woman to climax during sex, it’s probably because he can’t seduce her with her words. Sex experts tell us that a woman’s largest sexual organ is her brain, and as men, we should use it to our full advantage. You need to talk to him in a sexual way. Tell her that she is beautiful, that her body turns you on, that you care about her, and that you love the way she feels in your arms. You’ll also want to take her on an emotional roller coaster ride leading up to and during sex. In a playful way, you can even scare her by grabbing her wrists and pinning her against her pillows while giving her a dirty look when she tries to touch you. Then, as you lean in and bite her neck, you can whisper something like, “Bad girl!” You can then gently kiss her neck as she slides her fingertips up her inner arms, chest, and stomach. Then you can learn and whisper, “You’re adorable.” This will take her from being (playfully) scared to feeling powerless, to feeling adored. This is the perfect emotional roller coaster to create during sex.
The third thing to consider is your touch. Your touch should start out soft. Pretend to touch the soft skin of a newborn. Run your fingers all over her body. Touch his face, run your hand around the back of his neck and gently grab his hair. Use your body to occasionally apply pressure to his body. Have her wrap her legs around your lower back and move her to a different spot on the bed with your arm under her back. Make her feel vulnerable, feminine, manipulated. Use all your limbs and kiss her in places where she has never been kissed before. Have her lie on her stomach with her body propped up on her elbows and gently caress her breasts while you kiss the middle of her upper back down to her neck. Kiss the edge of her ear and gently exhale as you run your hand up her inner thigh. Spell words on her back with your fingertips and have her guess what they say. Lick her inner thighs, make her back arch and her face sweat with your caresses and kisses. Do that for about an hour and she will rip your underwear off of her and beg you to have sex with her. Then say “NO!” while playfully pinning her down and making her wait even longer. Then, just when you know she can’t wait another minute, slowly and deliberately slide inside her.
The fourth step is to control your lunges. When you first walk into a woman, keep the anticipation high. Just put in the first inch or so, and slowly move it in and out while leaning on it and looking into her eyes. When he can’t take it anymore, he’ll push her hips towards you to fully penetrate him. Then put her full weight on it and slowly pull it almost all the way back out, then push back in. Keep a slow and steady pace at the start of sex. Angle her thrust so the head grazes the top of her canal to stimulate her G-spot Make sure her pelvic bone moves away from hers then snap back into the stroke input. This will stimulate her clitoris and bring her to orgasm. Let her be the barometer of your stroke. Some women like it more than others, so read their reactions. But keep the anticipation in place, don’t allow yourself to get greedy. Often the hardest thing for men to do during sex is to control themselves. But you must be strong during sex, don’t allow yourself too much until she has already had her orgasm. Focus completely on enjoying it, but don’t make it obvious. Never, under any circumstances, mention to her that you want to give her an orgasm. Pressuring a girl to cum during sex is the best way to keep it from happening, so don’t even mention it! Keep the mood light and fun at times, and passionate and heavy at others. For your energy in hers body and adore every inch of her. Be there fully, focus all your attention on her. Keep a steady pace as you take her up the mountain to orgasm.