Engaging a woman’s mind before trying to engage her body

Women love to talk and they love to be listened to. For most women, if you don’t involve her mind, you won’t have much luck involving her body. Men and women are very different here. To learn how to engage her mind, you must learn how to talk to women. I will try to give you some hints and tips.

Clue #1:

When you first approach a woman to talk to her, don’t use a cheesy pick-up line. That might work on rare occasions, but for most women she tells him that you lack originality and are a lazy talker. Since women love to talk, they won’t pay much attention to you if you lack originality.

Clue #2:

Learn his name. Learn his name even before you give him yours. Go up to her and say “hi, what’s your name?” Now this may seem unoriginal, but it shows the woman that you are interested in knowing at least something about her. When she gives you her name, say “hi, ‘so-and-so’, my name is ‘so-and-so’. Nice to meet you.” Now you’ve done two things here. You have shown her that you are interested in her and you have used her name. All women love when a man uses her name. So don’t stop there. Throughout the conversation use her name. Not too much. But three or four times, distributed. This shows that you are giving him your attention. You learned her name and you’re using it. You are less likely to have to worry about her using the wrong name at the wrong time.

Clue #3:

Now that the names are out of the way, what are you talking about? Well, you need to find out what’s involved. This means asking questions. But don’t throw 100 questions at him in quick order. Don’t have a checklist of questions and just throw them away until you’ve worked them all out. Start with something simple, some current news or something about the environment around you. If you are in a very crowded bar, you can comment on it. So listen, and I mean listen to his response. If she says something like, “Yeah, I love the energy of crowded places,” and your next response is, “Let’s go somewhere quiet,” you’ve screwed up. She shows him that you didn’t listen to her. If, instead, you respond with something like, “I don’t mind crowded places once in a while, but I think they can be tiring” (if that’s how you feel), then you’ve shown her that you heard her and that you share a little. of the same feelings about things, or try saying something like “what is it about crowded places that gives you energy?” By repeating what she has said, she will feel that you are listening to her and that you really care about her opinions.

Clue #4:

You’ve started the conversation, but where do you go from here? I mean, really, you can only talk about a place that’s been occupied for so long. Now is when you can ask him what he does. Listen to his response and expand on it. If she says that she is a doctor, ask her what she likes best about that job. Ask him to share an interesting moment at work. No matter what she does for a living, you can start a conversation with her about her work by finding out more about what she does. If she’s in customer service, ask her what kind of customers she likes to deal with. Ask him to share a funny story about a customer. If you want to talk to a woman successfully, you have to show an interest in her life.

Clue #5:

When he starts asking about you, answer him. Give genuine information, but don’t ramble. Do not be negative. This is not an invitation to start complaining about your ex, your boss, your job, or your kids. This is an opportunity to show her that you are a complete man. A man who can attract her and hold her interest. Women don’t like to be bored and a man with only one topic of conversation will bore a woman to tears. If you’re really into gaming and that’s all you can talk about, unless you’re lucky enough to find a woman as into gaming as you are, she’ll get bored quickly. So she has some hobbies and interests. Maybe read a book or two. Stay up to date with news, current events and hot topics. Women love to gossip, so get to know your artists and what they’re up to. Yes, it’s work. Yes, you may find it boring, but if you really want to learn how to talk to a woman, you need to be up to date on the topics that most women follow.

Clue #6:

A short list of do’s and don’ts:

1. Ask her name first

2. Use their name in conversation

3. Ask about her, her work, her interests

4. Don’t forget his name

5. Don’t ramble on about yourself, especially the negatives.

6. Don’t bore her with just one topic.

7. Check trending topics and current events. Have at least some knowledge of who is in the news.

8. Ask open questions.

9. Don’t be pushy, if she doesn’t want to talk about something, don’t press the issue.

10. Be positive, charming and fun. Women love to laugh just as much as men.

So engage a woman’s mind and you’ll have the opportunity to engage her body. It’s really that simple. For women, attraction starts in the brain. If you can’t engage her mind, you can’t engage her body. So by following the tips outlined above, she will learn how to talk to women.