Where to meet nice women

Have you ever wondered, “where is there to meet nice women?”

I’m here to tell you that nice women are EVERYWHERE.

The most important thing you should do is improve YOUR RADAR.

Too many times as guys we overestimate her “niceness” based on our attraction to her.

We say all the time on the women’s dating radio show that I’m a co-host that guys “rush to rejection”, but that could easily turn into saying they “rush into a bad situation.”

If what I’m about to say doesn’t apply to you, congratulations, you’re in the top 10 percent in the world.

Unfortunately, 90 percent of men will overlook many of the flaws a woman has if they are super attracted to her and she treats them well, but not very well.

You need to learn what to look for and you need to learn to go slow.

Some advices?

You want a flexible donor

Is she discreet? Does she roll with the punches? Does he do nice things for you without being asked? Is it easy to be around her?

You probably have a flexible donor on your hands! If you are going to be with a woman for the long term, having someone who is flexible in their personality and approach to life combined with a generous spirit is a WINNER.

DON’T move too fast

Any woman can be a flexible giver in the short term. How many times has an ex-girlfriend been great at first and then hell on wheels as time went by? Make sure to do your due diligence and watch it long term.

We teach guys not to decide if she should be your girlfriend for at least 2 months. Don’t even consider marriage until you hit the 2-year mark.

How do you treat the people you DON’T need? How do you treat animals?

During this time frame (2-month mark to make her his girlfriend and 2-year mark to make her his wife) watch how you interact with people who won’t make a difference in your life one way or another. It’s EASY to treat your most important customer or boss with respect and kindness, but how about the person who serves you lunch at the restaurant or the maid who cleans your hotel room? The character of a person is revealed by how he treats people he does not need.

Coinciding with that is how he interacts with animals. I’m NOT saying you have to love dogs if you really don’t like them, but you should at least see that you are kind to the animal you interact with, even if you don’t particularly care about them.

There is no substitute for goodness / sweetness.

There are a lot of GREAT women out there, but you have to know what to look for. This is not a magical place where you can meet nice women, it is a mindset that allows you to recognize one when you have one.

Remember guys, you can meet a nice woman, but you have to give her time and make sure she’s nice in the LONG TERM.