Lap dance unleashed: 3 mistakes when performing a lap dance

BIGGEST LAP DANCE BUGS REVEALED

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Many women ask me: “How do I start my erotic dance?”

The fact is, most women get it wrong right from the start. Because a lap dance is quite short, if you start off badly, it will be an uphill battle to get his excitement or interest back and impress him.

The 10 SECOND RULE. You have less than 10 seconds to make your first impression. In those 10 seconds you need to communicate a lot of information and set the tone.

It is conveying very powerful messages to you in body, posture, tone, movement, and expression.

So DON’T: -Make excuses for yourself -Don’t say things like “I’ve never done this before.” -Don’t tell him how NERVOUS you are -Etc …

These are just a few of the instant mood-killing blackouts that will ruin your lap dance.

When you start out, it is critical that you communicate a sensual and powerful presence, show your power over him immediately.

If you’re not careful or don’t realize it, you could be communicating the wrong message or shutting it down from scratch.

CONTROL

Many girls make the mistake of letting him have his way during erotic dance. After all, you’re doing it for him, right? A BIG MISTAKE!

A lap dance consists of temporarily removing your power (something new and strange to most men) and putting you in a powerless and submissive position, for your maximum benefit and enjoyment. RESULT: he will love it, and he will associate those feelings of ‘loving him’ with you.

So …

You have to know the rules, communicate the rules to him, and then make him follow them, no matter what.

NO HIPS

When most women start moving to music, it gets UGLY really fast. (Do not be one of them). That’s because they move their hips like they’re riding a galloping hippo!

Your hips are the key to triggering the arousal response in your mammalian brain. But your hips are also the key to turning her arousal OFF!

So don’t swing your hips like you’re in an exercise class or hip hop music video. You have to learn to seduce him with your hips. Ask yourself: what message are your hips giving you?

Your hips are the most powerful sensual tool in your bag of tricks; learn to move them correctly, and you will master his interest, his imagination and you will hypnotize him.

Dirty talk

Adding language to your lap dance can increase the stimulation you are giving it. BUT, say the wrong thing and it can destroy the chemistry and all the hard work you’ve done, just as quickly.

What you say can:

1) Increase your sensation and arousal.

2) Or, destroy the chemistry – immediately

For example, what effect do you think saying “I feel bloated” will have on him? Now, “Do I look good?”

Learning a few chosen phrases and using them at the right time WILL DRIVE YOU CRAZY. You can give fantastic erotic dances before the day is out!